LEAD YOURSELF FIRST.
Lead Your Life Again.
Every courageous decision changes who you become.
I live what I coach.
What's one thing you've always wanted to do?
Let's build the confidence to make it happen. Together.
REAL EXPERIENCE
OVER 30 YEARS OF PERSONAL GROWTH AND LIFE EXPERIENCE
QUALIFIED & TRAINED
PSYCHOLOGY GRADUATE | COUNSELLING TRAINED | TOASTMASTERS MEMBER
PRACTICAL & PERSONAL
HONEST CONVERSATIONS AND PRACTICAL TOOLS THAT CREATE REAL, LASTING CHANGE.
You know you deserve better. From the outside, life might look fine. You're working. Providing.
Supporting others. Keeping going.
But somewhere along the way, you've lost connection with the man that you used to be.
The man who felt free. The man who trusted himself. The man who felt light and free and strong.
Maybe you're wondering whether life is meant to feel better than this.
It is.
Psychology Graduate | Counselling Trained | 32+ Years Sober | Toastmasters (public speaking) Member Since 2013
A DIFFERENT CHAPTER IS POSSIBLE
Decisions become clearer.
Conversations become easier.
Energy stops being wasted on things that don't matter.
You stop carrying responsibilities that were never yours to begin with.
Instead of constantly questioning yourself, you begin trusting your own judgement.
Instead of waiting for motivation, you start taking the actions that create momentum.
Life begins to feel lighter.
More purposeful.
More enjoyable.
You spend less time stuck in your head and more time engaged in your life.
At the end of the week, there's a sense of satisfaction from knowing you've spent your time on what actually matters.
Confidence
Purpose
Communication
Life Transformation
Boundaries
Self-Trust
Taking Action
Enjoyment
Confidence Purpose Communication Life Transformation Boundaries Self-Trust Taking Action Enjoyment
WORK WITH DAVE
You've built a life.
You've carried responsibility.
Shown up for everyone else.
Somewhere along the way... you stopped showing up for - yourself.
The confidence isn't what it was.
Your spark has faded.
You know you're capable of more — but you can't quite get back to the man you know you can be.
That's where I come in.
I work with men between ages of 40 and 60 who are ready to stop surviving - and start living with purpose, confidence and direction again.
Not through motivation.
Not through pretending.
Simply through honest conversations, practical tools and real accountability.
Because I've lived it too.
Because this isn't something I learned from a book.
For more than thirty years I've been committed to personal growth and recovery.
32 years sober and still growing.
Psychology graduate.
Counselling trained.
Toastmasters member.
Argentine tango dancer.
Open water swimmer.
Public speaker.
Everything I teach has first been tested in my own life before I ever share it with another man.
I do know what it feels like to carry everything on your own.
I also know what changes when you stop trying to cope and you start living deliberately again.
That's what this work is built on.
Not theory.
Real life.
NOT EVERY MAN STARTS FROM THE SAME PLACE.
Here are the ways we can work together.
30 minutes.
No charge.
No pressure.
If you're unsure where to begin, begin here.
One honest conversation where we get clear on where you are, what's keeping you stuck, and what your next step could be.
No pitch.
No agenda.
Just two men having an honest conversation.
Whether we work together afterwards or not, my aim is simple:
To help you leave with more clarity, more confidence, and practical next steps you can actually use.
Coaching Packages
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One Session. One Focus. Real Direction.
£75
Sometimes one honest conversation is enough to shift something you've carried for years.
This is a focused 60-minute coaching session built around one challenge, one decision or one situation asking for your attention.
No fluff.
No endless theory.
Just practical, honest coaching.
From the moment you book, you'll receive the complete POWER Method toolkit so you leave with practical tools you can keep using long after our session.
What's included
• One 60-minute coaching session
• Complete POWER Method toolkit
• Worksheets
• Clear action steps
• Follow-up message with key takeaways
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Four Weeks. Four Sessions. Where Real Change Begins.
£280
Four weeks of focused coaching built around your life.
Before our first session you'll receive the complete POWER Method toolkit so the work starts immediately.
Each week builds naturally on the last.
Week One — Clarity
Understand where you really are and what needs to change.
Week Two — Patterns
Identify the beliefs and habits holding you back.
Week Three — Building
Strengthen confidence, communication and daily habits using the POWER framework.
Week Four — Direction
Create a practical plan for the next chapter of your life.
What's included
• Four private coaching sessions
• Complete POWER Method toolkit from day one
• Practical worksheets and exercises designed to help you build lasting change between sessions
• WhatsApp support
• Action steps after every session
• Personal action plan
Whether this is all you need or the beginning of something bigger, the goal remains the same:
More clarity.
More confidence.
More direction.
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Three Months. Twelve Sessions. Lasting Change.
£780
One hour together every week.
Twelve weeks of building lasting momentum.
This is for the man who's tired of talking about change and is ready to start living it.
From day one you'll receive the complete POWER Method toolkit so everything we discuss becomes practical between sessions.
Together we'll work on:
• Confidence
• Communication
• Boundaries
• Relationships
• Purpose
• Habits
• Your next chapter
What's included
• Twelve private coaching sessions
• Complete POWER Method toolkit
• WhatsApp support
• Voice messaging
• Monthly reviews
• Personal roadmap
This isn't about becoming someone different.
It's about becoming more like the man you've known was there all along.
NOT SURE WHERE TO START?
Most men begin with a free Clarity Call.
No pressure.
No obligation.
Just an honest conversation.
WHAT YOU'LL WALK AWAY WITH
Confidence
Making decisions and moving forward without constantly second-guessing yourself.
Communication
Saying what you mean clearly, honestly and respectfully.
Boundaries
Protecting your time and energy without guilt.
Purpose
Knowing what matters and where you're headed.
Self-Trust
Relying on your own judgement instead of constantly seeking reassurance.
Momentum
Taking practical action that creates meaningful change.
If you're ready to stop drifting and start moving forward with greater confidence, purpose and direction, let's have a conversation.
Together we'll identify:
• What's keeping you stuck
• What needs to change
• The practical actions that will help you move forward
No pressure.
No hard sell.
Just an honest conversation between two men.
BOOK YOUR FREE CLARITY CALL
MOST MEN DON'T NEED FIXING
Most men aren't broken.
They've spent years carrying responsibilities, meeting expectations and putting themselves last.
More pressure isn't what they need.
What helps is clarity.
Honest feedback.
Accountability.
Support.
And a practical path forward.
That's what we'll build together.
WHY WORK WITH ME
I combine psychology, coaching, lived experience and over three decades of personal growth to help men build confidence, direction and self-trust in the real world.
Psychology Graduate
Understanding confidence, behaviour and lasting change.
Counselling Trained
Creating a space for honest conversations and growth.
Toastmasters Member Since 2013
Building confidence, communication and presence.
32+ Years Sober
Living proof that meaningful change is possible.
I DON’T JUST COACH THIS. I LIVE IT.
These aren’t theories, these are practices I live every day.
Real Experiences. Real Challenges. Real Growth.
Public Speaking
Speaking up when staying silent would feel safer.
Tango
Building trust, presence and connection one dance at a time.
Challenge & Growth
Choosing challenge, embracing discomfort and discovering what I'm capable of.
These activities aren’t hobbies.
They’re how I practice courage, connection and resilience in real life.
The goal isn’t to do more. It’s to become more.
And that’s what I help other men create.
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POWER TOOLKIT
Twenty-five practical worksheets designed to help men rebuild confidence, direction and momentum.
Inspired by psychology, recovery, public speaking, personal growth and the lessons I've learned applying them in my own life.
The POWER Toolkit™️ is a practical five-stage framework that I provide throughout coaching to help create clarity, confidence and lasting change.
Included in coaching
✔ All 25 worksheets
✔ Personalised exercises
✔ Accountability between sessions
✔ Practical actions designed around your life
Get the first worksheet from each stage of the POWER Toolkit™️ and see if they resonate with you.
P — Purpose First
Discover what truly matters to you.
O — Own Your Mind
Recognise the thoughts and habits holding you back.
W — Wellness Wins
Build energy through small daily practices.
E — Energised Life
Reconnect with play, adventure and enthusiasm.
R — Renewed Identity
Step into the man you want to become.
Includes 5 worksheets — one from each stage.
The remaining twenty worksheets are provided throughout coaching and tailored to your own goals and challenges.
HOW IT WORKS
Step 1 — Clarity Call
A free conversation about where you are, what's getting in the way and where you'd like to be.
Step 2 — Your Roadmap
We'll identify what matters most and the practical next steps forward.
Through coaching, accountability and practical tools, you'll spend less time overthinking and more time moving forward.
Step 3 — Build Momentum
Frequently Asked Questions
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If you're ready to be honest with yourself and willing to take action, coaching can help.
WHAT THIS ISN'TThis isn't therapy.
It isn't someone telling you how to live your life.
It isn't about fixing you.
It's one man walking alongside another until he reconnects with his confidence, his direction and the life he wants to lead.
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We'll explore your situation, your goals and whether we're a good fit to work together.
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Yes. Coaching is available worldwide via Zoom.
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No.
I'll challenge and support you, but the goal is to help you trust your own judgement and make decisions with confidence.
YOU DON'T NEED TO STAY STUCK
Imagine six months from now.
Feeling clearer about where you're heading.
Speaking up when something matters.
Making decisions without going round in circles.
Trusting your own decisions more.
Looking forward to the future instead of wondering where the years have gone.
That's what this work is about.
It starts with a conversation.
